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Love is a beautiful monster!


Definition of Love

Love is defined as a strong or constant affection for a person. Love can cause a variation of many different attitudes and stages that range from affection to pleasure. Besides being referenced to as an emotion of strong attraction or person attachment, love can represent kindness and compassion. Many people interpret love as a function that drives the continuation of any given species. Love is also defined as a deep feeling of sexual desire and attraction and/or sexual activities (often including sexual intercourse) between two people.

Scientifically, the feeling of love is a chemical reaction that compels two people to breed.

Benefits of Love

  1. Improves our health
  2. Helps us feel understood
  3. Provides us with shared experiences
  4. Enhances our mood
  5. Gives us time

Love compromised

when one finds love they often try to hold on to it but in this day and age it has become one of the hardest thing to find. sure you can find your match online but no one take it serious . you become a smaller fish in a bigger ponds. even if you find someone your interested in ,you also may have to fight for there attention because they have so may other people who are also interested in them . 2017 is the year of the overprotective lover , with social media to blame .


Companionship

That "Alive" feeling.

Having a person that loves you for who you truly are can cause years of happiness. Your mind, body and soul will not grow old and lonely. Love is beyond what people define it to be for the fact that love does not hurt nor does it see. People hurt others and people are blinded by ones action, Love is the glue that holds companions together. It is not loves fault that people fall victim to temptation. Love is a bond, connection and a positive experience when you find your match, your soul mate and your one in a million. It takes two strong minds to become one.-Jasmine Moctezuma

That "Complete" feeling

Love can be expressed in several ways depending on one's relationship. For instance, a mother's love is the type of love that shares an unbreakable bond and in many words it is hard to explain, being that I am a mother I have the experience of the type of love I feel for my children. This type of love make is different from being in love. This love of feeling complete is sentimental, special, and lasts forever. Love that mothers and children share are forever connected to one another and there is a deeper bond than many relationships experience.- Shawnnasia Floyd

Negative Aspects of Love

Love can hurt more than it could ever feel good, which is why I question "why love at all?" You become easily distracted. This can make it difficult to finish tasks on time. People tend to lose sleep talking/thinking about their significant other all night. Jealousy starts taking over in your head. You can't make decisions on your own.

Love hurts because sometimes you offer more than can be reciprocated. At first, love almost always feels like an overwhelmingly positive experience. Love can result in pain when we learn something about another person that results in a loss. Sometimes you have to let that person or thing go that you most loved because you realize that you can never feel that previous love that was once so prominent. What many forget is the concept of loving one self. People want to love others when they have not yet accepted themselves. That can result in pain because the root of your own happiness was never a priority. The majority of us are so scared to accept our own flaws that we love others for the wrong reason.


LOVE can also be found on dating websites. This means you do not own have to leave the house anymore to find LOVE! No more outside socialization. This is a major negative!


These Websites Include:

Match

Plenty of Fish2 
Zoosk3
OK Cupid4 
eHarmony5 
Badoo6
Christian Mingle7 
Our Time8 
Date Hookup9
Black People Meet10
How About We11 
Senior People Meet12 
Speed Date13
Chemistry14
J Date15

Online dating has been the norm in society lately. With the media to blame of course. Dating online promotes cat fishing, and being antisocial. Over the past few years the online dating has been a growing platform.

References

1. http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/love

2. Helen Fisher. Why We Love: the nature and chemistry of romantic love. 2004.


3.https://www.vocabulary.com/dictionary/love

4. https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/aug/10/why-does-love-hurt-google

5. http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/why-you-must-first-love-yourself-before-you-can-love-another/

6. https://matchmakinginstitute.com/the-top-5-benefits-of-being-in-love/